Don’t use Chemical Weapons on Your Spouse’s Lover!

The U.S. Court of Appeals for the Third Circuit recently declined to invalidate a federal prosecution against a woman, Carol Anne Bond, who was accused of placing toxic chemicals (stolen from her employer) on the doorknob, mailbox and car door handles of her husband’s lover. Bond was prosecuted under the Federal Chemical Weapons Act and wanted the law declared unconstitutional. The Third Circuit apparently viewed the prosecution under this particular law as a stretch (one would imagine the intent of the Chemical Weapons Act would be to preclude larger-scale acts of terrorism), but declined to hold the law unconstitutional.

Whether or not she should have been prosecuted under the Chemical Weapons Act, Bond’s actions would certainly constitute Domestic Violence under New Jersey law. Her acts (if directed against the husband rather than his lover) also would likely be sufficiently egregious to warrant an unequal distribution of marital assets in a divorce trial. New Jersey has carved a very narrow exception to the rule that marital fault should not play a role in alimony or the division of assets. In Mani v. Mani, 183 N.J. 70 (2005) the New Jersey Supreme Court described a very small set of cases in which fault could effect the economic outcomes in a divorce, including cases where a spouse took out a contract to murder the other spouse, or deliberately infected the other spouse with a “loathsome disease.” Attempts to poison a spouse with toxic chemicals probably rises to the level the N.J. Supreme Court was describing. Bottom line, don’t use chemical weapons on anyone, even if they have broken your heart!

C. Megan Oltman, Esq.

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Marriage Equality Moves forward on Two Fronts

Last week, as you are probably aware, both houses of the New Jersey Legislature passed the Marriage Equality Act, although Governor Christie swiftly vetoed the legislation. (Commentators indicate that Governor Christie himself is not anti-gay or anti- marriage equality, but is catering to prospective Republican primary voters in South Carolina in 2016.) The Act passed by 42 to 33 in the Assembly and 24 to 16 in the Senate. To override the veto, 50 votes are needed in the Assembly and 27 in the Senate. Proponents have until January 2014, the end of the current legislative term, to gather enough votes to override.  

In the meantime, in an unpublished decision in Garden State Equality v. Dow, Mercer County Assignment Judge Linda Feinberg granted plaintiffs’ motion for reconsideration of the two equal protection counts of the complaint. The case will now proceed to trial on those two counts, with the intention of making the record for the unequal treatment of civil union partners which the New Jersey Supreme Court indicated would be needed to overturn the civil union law.

It will be interesting to see which pathway is completed first. Will NJ join the ranks of states legislating marriage equality, or will equality be mandated by the Courts? One way or another, passage of marriage equality seems assured in the next few years.

C. Megan Oltman, Esq.

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What do you do if you’re divorcing and the house won’t sell?

It used to be that the single biggest asset the average married couple owned was their home. It used to be that most couples had some equity in their home, and therefore there would be something to share out at the time of the divorce. Neither of these things is necessarily true any more, as more and more homeowners owe more on their home than its market value. So what happens if that couple, underwater on their house, without other significant assets, wants to divorce?

It won’t work for one of the parties to refinance and buy the other out unless there is enough equity that a bank would be willing to take on the refinance. Sales can take a long time in this market. More and more couples are being forced to share the home after they have filed for divorce, or even after the divorce judgment.

How does that work, sharing the home? It will vary greatly based on the personalities of the two people involved, and on their animosity level. What’s needed is to take a business-like approach to the arrangement and to put emotion to the side.

Easier said than done, certainly. We find that many couples who have used mediation to settle the issues in their divorce will have an easier time coming up with a mutual set of ground-rules about how to share a home while ending a marriage. Even if the divorce itself is not mediated, meeting together with a mediator can give you a great neutral space and a facilitator to figure out how to share your space while you wait to sell.

C. Megan Oltman

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Over the line on Harassment

The branch of New Jersey’s Domestic Violence law dealing with harassment got further explanation by the Appellate Division this week in C.C. v. T.R. The Defendant tried to avail himself of the earlier Appellate Division case, E.D. v. P.D., in which the Appellate Division overturned a Final Restraining Order for harassment where the   conduct (leaving belligerent messages and calls at the plaintiff’s work, name-calling and giving the finger) amounted only to a “domestic contretemps” and was not sufficient to make out a complaint of harassment. In this case, however, the Appellate Division found that the defendant’s conduct - sending a large number of alarming text messages in a short period of time, entering plaintiff’s home without permission, threatening to report her to various agencies, accessing her laptop, and hiring a detective to follow her - was for the purpose of intimidating and harassing plaintiff.

Where exactly does the line lie between a domestic contretemps and actionable harassment? E.D. obviously had not crossed the line, while C.C. had. The quality of the behavior in C.C. appears significantly more intrusive, threatening and disruptive to the plaintiff’s life than that in E.D., suggesting a rule of thumb.

C. Megan Oltman

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Bill Advances in NJ Legislature for Reductions in Child and Spousal Support due to Unemployment

The New Jersey Assembly Judiciary Committee voted unanimously to recommend passage of a bill that would allow a reduction in alimony or child support if the payor demonstrates a reduction in income due to unemployment or disability. While Family Part Judges have already had the power to grant such reductions upon a showing of changed circumstances, they have wide latitude to decide whether the reduction in income is temporary, or if it is voluntary. Judges have varied widely in the amount of attention they give to the current poor economy and its effect on earning power. The proposed added language in the Bill reads:

     “The obligation to pay child support may be modified based upon
     changed circumstances, which may include a diminishment of the
     obligor’s income due to unemployment, temporary disability or
     similar circumstances for a period lasting longer than six months,
     unless the court determines that such diminution in income was
     deliberately incurred by the obligor in order to evade such support
     obligation or that the obligor has failed to make reasonable efforts
     to secure alternative employment.”

This appears to me to be no more than a codification of existing practice, and it will be interesting to see how much difference a specific mandate like this will make in Family Part decisions. The intention of the sponsor, Representative Sean Kean (R-Monmouth & Ocean), is to ensure that financial issues between divorcing spouses are “fairly resolved and periodically assessed to ensure an undue burden is not placed on a person paying alimony.”

C. Megan Oltman

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New reproductive technologies: Parentage of a child born to a gestational surrogate

Shades of the Baby M case, in a new generation and a new context. A married heterosexual couple with an infertile wife and fertile husband, decides to have a child by means of a donor egg, fertilized in vitro with the husband’s sperm. They then have an embryo implanted in the uterus of a surrogate mother (not the egg donor), who agrees to carry the baby to term for them.

The New Jersey Parentage Act, N.J.S.A. 9:17-38 to-59, provides that the surrogate, who could be the biological mother of the child, or, in this case, the gestational mother, has 72 hours following the birth to choose whether or not to surrender her parental rights. You may remember the famous Baby M case in 1988 in which the surrogate (biological) mother had contracted with a couple to be inseminated with the husband’s sperm and bear a child for them, but later regretted her decision and took the child from the couple. The New Jersey Supreme court ultimately voided the surrogacy contract as against public policy, and remanded to the trial court which ultimately awarded the couple custody and gave the surrogate mother visitation rights.

In contrast in The Matter of the Parentage of a Child by T.J.S. and A.L.S., the gestational surrogate mother has not sought parental rights, but the couple involved sought a pre-birth judgment that the wife is the mother of the child, as contemplated in their contract with the surrogate. The Appellate Division declined to hold that the wife, A.L.S. is entitled to be considered the mother until after the expiration of the 72 hour waiting period following the birth.

The Appellate Division held that it is not a violation of equal protection to require the infertile wife to gain parental rights by adoption, after the expiration of the 72 hour waiting period, even though a husband whose wife is impregnated (with his consent) by artificial insemination, is deemed to be the father of the child even prior to birth. The court discussed the difference between the real, biological situations of men and women, indicating that the legislature had a rational reason for gaining children the support of a father in artificial insemination situations, and a different rational reason for respecting the rights of a woman who carries a child for 9 months, whether biologically related to her or not.

C. Megan Oltman, Esq.

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Wage Garnishment of Child Support: the Whole Ordered amount to be garnished

The New Jersey Appellate Division just ruled in White v. St. Paul that where the trial court had ordered child support to be paid by garnishment of the payor parent’s wages, the full amount ordered was to be garnished, rather than allowing the payor parent to pay part of the amount directly outside of the garnishment. This ruling bolsters the right of the parent receiving support to have the payment obligation monitored by Probation. Good news for recipients, relief from the need to monitor and enforce.

C. Megan Oltman, Esq.

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Ex-husband can engage in name-calling without rising to level of harassment

The New Jersey Appellate Division held yesterday that an “ordinary domestic contretemps” did not rise to the level of harassment required for imposition of a domestic violence restraining order. In E.D. v. P.D. the trial court had entered a restraining order where the ex-husband had repeatedly made belligerent telephone calls to his ex-wife at work, repeated called her names and gave her a “one-finger salute.” The Appellate Division held that these actions were not at a level the Legislature intended to designate as domestic violence.

C. Megan Oltman, Esq.

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Disclaimer: Any and all information contained on this site is for informational purposes, and should not be utilized as a substitute for a full, in-person consultation with a lawyer in your State and familiar with your circumstances. Strich Law Firm, P.C.  assumes no responsibility for any information contained on this site, and disclaims all liability in respect of such information. In addition, no part of this site shall be deemed to form any contract between Strich Law Firm, P.C. , and anyone viewing this site.

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Question whether unemployment was voluntary in child support case.

In Ungvarsky v. Ungvarsky, the New Jersey Appellate Division this week sent a case back to the trial court to determine whether or not the payor-father’s unemployment was voluntary, a necessary step before determining whether to impute income to him for child support purposes. The mother had petitioned to have income imputed to him, and her petition was denied by the trial court without fact finding. The Appellate Division remanded for a plenary hearing. In these days of high unemployment and under-employment fact-finding is especially important to be sure that the income levels imputed to parents are as fair as possible to both parties and the children.  


C. Megan Oltman, Esq.

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 Disclaimer: Any and all information contained on this site is for informational purposes, and should not be utilized as a substitute for a full, in-person consultation with a lawyer in your State and familiar with your circumstances. Strich Law Firm, P.C.  assumes no responsibility for any information contained on this site, and disclaims all liability in respect of such information. In addition, no part of this site shall be deemed to form any contract between Strich Law Firm, P.C. , and anyone viewing this site.

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Post Judgment Asset or Liability

In Whissell v Whissell, the Appellate Court of NJ held that an asset not included in the PSA is not automatically subject to equitable distribution. Rather, a plenary hearing (a trial) is necessary to determine if distribution of the asset in the context of the entire agreement is “fair and just.” 

In the opinion of the writer herein, this ruling would likewise apply to a liability not included in the property or marital settlement agreement or Judgment of Divorce.

Gabrielle L. Strich, Esq.

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